How to Finger a Girl

How to Finger a GirlThe Proper Way You Should Be Pleasing HerSince every vagina is shaped slightly differently, the moves that get women off vary from lady to lady. Meaning, every woman needs something a little bit different in order to reach the big O. Also, that “something” doesn’t involve your dick, only 12.9 percent of women reach orgasm through penetration alone.1. It’s More Than Sticking Your Finger In and OutRemember, it’s what’s on the outside that counts. Specifically, we’re talking about the clit. The kind of “fingering” that actually brings women to orgasm is rubbing of the outside area around the clit. In fact, that’s how most women masturbate because it’s what actually feels the best. For the vast majority of women.2. Different Women Like Different ThingsGuys who think they have “the move” are usually worst at giving pleasure. The mentality of “one move to finish them all” makes sense to men, since moves like stroking and sucking work for almost all guys, and if there’s lube, just about any rubbing is going to feel good to some degree. But for women, it’s truly different strokes for different folks.The clit is so sensitive that touch can sometimes feel really uncomfortable or even hurt certain women. A prime example is that some women orgasm almost exclusively through their clitoris, while others prefer a G-spot orgasm. In bed, try experimenting with using different fingers, since some girls might prefer you use a smaller, shorter finger, while others might prefer the middle finger for maximal G-spot stimulation.3. Most Agree That ‘This One Move’ Doesn’t Do ItWomen who’s guy does a hard and ödemiş escort fast back and forth motion, commonly known as the “DJ” because of how it mimics the spinning of a track. that kind of superfast cadence and pressure directly on the clit only feels good for 1 in 48 women. For the rest, it either doesn’t feel great or actually hurts. To put it into perspective, the vast majority of women, it’s not a good move.4. Fingering Isn’t Just For ForeplayIt’s true that very few get off by way of penetration, women said they need their clit stimulated in order to reach orgasm. That means you need to pay attention to your partner’s most sensitive part if you want her to orgasm. In fact, the clit gets attention here and there, but most women would prefer to have it touched throughout the act.5. Start by Touching Everything Except the VaginaFor most women, the more anticipation that’s built up before touching the vagina, the more aroused they become, providing more pleasure once you do start to touch her down there. Women said that kisses on the lips, neck, shoulders, and arms usually do the trick, as well as gently, slowly stroking their stomach, legs, and thighs.You can’t go wrong with slow foreplay.6. Be a TeaseApproach the crotch area, but keep passing by it as if it’s invisible. If you tease and don’t stroke it, it comes to you.Some woman described a method they call the “fake out.” To do it, you move your fingertip down your partner’s body from her neck to her breasts to her stomach, but instead of landing at her crotch, veer down her leg. Then, on the way back up, move your fingertip in another path that escort ödemiş misses her crotch, too. These moves build anticipation and help awaken arousal. Many women love this kind of withholding and will eventually move their crotch toward your finger or tongue as it passes by — a good sign that the clit is ready to be touched. The more awake her body is, the more pleasurable it will be when you finally touch her clitoris.7. Use the HoodThe clit has a naturally occurring hood of skin meant to help soften contact since the clit is super sensitive. Staying right on the clit is often pretty painful, some woman describe the sensation as “the feeling of sticking a Q-tip way too far into your ear.”To balance this, most women say that “layering” with the hood brings them the right amount of pleasure without the pain that direct contact with the clit can end up facilitating. To try layering, touch the hood, rubbing it so that the pressure you’re putting on it makes contact with the clit.8. Spread the WetnessBefore touching the clit directly, most women say they prefer you to spread the wetness from the inside of their vagina. Get it on your finger, and “paint it” onto the rest of the lips and clit.Using natural lube makes touching feel smoother, and allows your fingertips to glide and caress instead of pulling or catching on the sensitive skin. Keep in mind, you’ll likely have to go back for seconds and thirds of wetness in order to get it well coated. It’s also good to note that not all women make a lot of natural lube (even if they’re really turned on), so don’t be shy about adding some manufactured lube into the ödemiş escort bayan mix.9. Touch the Clit LightlyThe most commonly appreciated “first touch” of the clit is one that’s feather-light. Most woman even compared the initial touch they like to rubbing honey on a butterfly’s wing. Keep your touch delicate and light so that your fingertip isn’t even moving the skin, just gliding over it. Remember, the clitoris is extremely sensitive, so proceed gently!10. Pay Attention to Her ReactionsMany women say that the guys who are best at fingering are the ones who start off gently and then try different moves, while watching and asking for feedback. They also ask questions that don’t put their partner in a tough spot. For example, questions like “Is that good?” or “Are you close?” are not the direction you want to go. Instead, ask questions like “Faster or slower?” or “Higher or lower?” The answers to these questions will actually give you useful information to make the pleasure better, and keep your ego intact.11. Tell Her You’re Not in a RushOne big factor that prevents women from reaching orgasm is that they have too many concerns running through their head. They’re worried that they’re taking too long, or that they’ll offend their partner if they ask them to change their moves.The quickest, easiest thing you can do to up your chances of getting your partner off is assure her that there’s no rush. Say how much you’re into it, and that it can take as long as it needs to. Also, let her know that there’s no pressure if nothing happens. Many women can’t orgasm because they feel like they’re going to let their partner down if they don’t. If you take that end goal off the table, she’s actually more likely to get there.12. Use a ToyOne foolproof way to take things up a notch? Adding a toy into the mix, may help to level up your next finger bang.